I got a boost of happiness lately, I’m not sure what the source is. I think it’s doing what I love and being my own boss. I participated in a flea market sort of thing in my city this weekend, and I sold some of my crafts! The road getting there is a bit hard and difficult and I learned so much about how to work with people, but overall it was a great experience. I actually ended up almost wanting to stay in my city because of it. But I know not to be distracted by small victories as if they’re the source of my true happiness. In fact, I didn’t profit. But, what is important is that it gave me energy to keep pushing on working for myself. I want to make it so that I can have my own workshop/ studio but I probably need at least $10,000 to make that happen. I’ll need that soon too, since I’m about to give up my apartment. I’m questioning whether or not it’s the right decision but I kind of want to just decide and commit to it, so I can’t look back. I need to not have other options, so that failure can’t be one of them. I have to make it work. Fortunately, my new boost of energy has kept me so productive lately.
Here’s to hoping I can keep selling my crafts and keep finishing passion projects that will eventually lead to me actually getting paid by working for myself!
I have about a 3-4 month that I can keep living off my unemployment if everything goes well. I look at it as my grace period. Within that 3-4 months I need to be able to keep all my bills current. Renew my passport, and stand on my own 2 feet.
I think I will start investing money in the stock market even if it’s only a little bit at a time. I also decided to make all my credit cards current, and I think I can have 2 of them paid off before that time is out.
More importantly, I need to have my career almost set-up before that time is up. There’s so much to do! Now is not the time to be complacent.
I mentioned that I got laid-off/quit because my previous employer never paid me on time right?
That event is big… because I’m in debt and will turn 30 this year. But It’s great because it makes me feel so uncomfortable, I’m pushing myself to the edges. With that said, here’s some quick rants on what I’ve learned so far as I try to be self-employed.
Read your Contracts!
– So many companies use templates from the web, that they fail to change basic info such as location, names etc. This is of course a no-go.
– Negotiate the terms. I’ve been talking to a prospective client for over a month, it seems like it’s going somewhere, but I’ve never in detail told them basics of getting paid. In order to compromise. I’ve accepted the NET-30 payment terms they suggested, but reiterated that I need a deposit before I even start anything.
Big Lesson of the Day:
During the ‘dating phase’ of getting consulting work, make sure to be very clear about your payment terms. Put this in your project proposal! So that when it comes down to signing contracts, there will be less amendments.